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Mediate and choose influence over power

In my mediation information meetings I often ask my clients what they argue about and how these arguments end. The following is typical of what I often hear from each client. Every time we argue about the children he threatens

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What is the price for Child Support

This article follows a radio chat I was recently involved in on BBC Radio 5 Live, Drive hour last Wednesday. We have now seen two decades of significant changes to the Child Support Statutory scheme in 1993 (CS1), 2003 (CS2)

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Fear 3- Mediation focuses on the fear

It might sound strange but in mediation much of what we focus on is the fear, concerns and frustrations our clients are experiencing. Not for the sake of it, obviously but because the answers and positive outcomes lie in dealing

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Traditional thinking- another barrier to mediation?

Conflict resolution and problem solving approaches rooted in tradition and custom can be a barrier to innovation, creativity and progress which are all the hallmarks of successful conflict resolution processes. So, what am i thinking about in particular? Well, mediation

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What is a MIAM?

The Office for National Statistics latest reports showed that there were 118,140 divorces in total in 2012, which is the equivalent to 13 divorces every hour of every day of the year.   The question for every one of these

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How to help your children through separation

Recent media coverage of two large-scale pieces of research show that children and young people are showing signs of new levels of despair and depression; http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/education-25653389. Amongst the reasons given were poverty and family breakdown, pressure from school and parents

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Mediation is a time for honesty

– Say what you mean and mean what you say- Expressing your thoughts and emotions, articulating what you are concerned about and what is important to you, are all essential if you want to make progress in mediation, as you

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