How being a ‘fly on the wall’ can help prepare you for mediation. Jessica Vassallo is an award-winning Transformation Change Coach, Master NLP Practitioner Member of the Compass Resolution Family Mediation Team of Experts Gaining insights and perspective can
You have the POWER ” There are no unresourceful people, only unresourceful STATES (which can be changed) ” NLP principle People often want to tell me in their pre-mediation assessment meetings how unreasonable they feel their partner is being; So000
How can two people have such different stories to tell? She says to me;“I don’t understand what’s happened. I don’t recognise him any more. He has changed so much” He says; “I couldn’t go on living like this. For me,
I am often told by my mediator colleagues that they find it hard to convert initial mediation enquiries into mediations because when they contact the ‘other person’ they are not interested. So, let’s look at why this might be the
9 KEY PRE-MEDIATION INFORMATION AND ASSESSMENT QUESTIONS Start with broad open questions allowing the client to lead you to and emphasise the things most important to them within the framework you set by your questions, as you listen with a
Lessons I suppose that whether you are going through a separation or you have just been burgled (for the second time) there are positive lessons to be learned. Sometimes we have to look quit hard for them but they are
Returning to the burglary. “How dare they,… how dare they enter my home, steal my things. Who do they think they are, these people”….but of course these people don’t think! The reality is that the people who burgled your house
The first and most immediate stage of loss is the sense of shock, almost disbelief at receiving the news. Is this really happening? This immediate sense of loss can often feel overwhelming. But, of course it is all really happening.
Imagine you and your family have spent 20 years building a home in which you all feel safe and secure, surrounded by your personal belongings and family memories, representing an important part of who you are. Then, one day, out
The challenge It can sometimes be very challenging to persuade and influence a person to meet me, the mediator, to find out about family mediation, even when that meeting may be free ! This is especially true when the
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