Whatever you are going through and whatever support you need, seek to learn from a lot of different people, sources and resources-People, speeches, videos, books, courses, podcasts There are lots of ways to get you started in looking for
We get what we expect! Whenever we develop expectations for a certain event, our brain often moulds our perception of that event to match expectations. We get what we expect. We see what we expect to see. We hear what
Mediation provides a fantastic space and opportunity to influence and shape positive outcomes. However, to play an effective part in mediation, a 4 dimensional awareness and focus of attention is required. What do I mean by ? A. Focus on your thoughts,
My 9 year old step daughter is currently learning, and, it is fair to say, struggling a little, to tie the shoe laces on her first pair of lace-up shoes, feeling more and more grown up by the minute. In
Open and honest communication If you are clear and perceived as open and honest in the way you communicate, there is a good chance that the person with whom you are communicating will feel like reciprocating, leading to an open and
As a mediator, I am working with more and more separating couples who have come out of the court system, into mediation, because they have experienced first-hand what it feels like to be ‘processed’ by a court system! Having spent
‘ I am sorry’ seem to be the hardest words Generally, men and woman regard apologies from different perspectives For women, it is a way of reconnecting with someone whose feelings they have hurt. They generally regard it as an
Manipulators are good at gaining trust but not so good at retaining it. ‘There is nothing more intimate in life than simply being understood’ As I see it, in many of my mediations, the key to gaining trust lies in
How do we CONNECT with our clients We want our mediators to be two things above all; Sincere Competent Why are these two aspects so important? One of the keys to an effectiveness mediation process is the quality of the relationship/connection
10 videos to get you started in mediation VIDEO 1- The separation challenge Separation and divorce can be a very traumatic time and challenge our very sanity. How often is it that we hear ‘ I don’t recognise them any
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