Whatever you are going through and whatever support you need, be curious and look to learn from a lot of different people,  sources and resources-People, speeches, videos, books, courses, podcasts

There are lots of ways to get you started in looking for the right support.

1.  Look for and use free resources- shop around to see what works for you

2. Don’t look for one professional to support you, look for many, a strong network of relationships relevant to the issues you are going through

3. Don’t forget to look to non family professionals as well for support ie your peers because they are often closer to the issues you may be struggling with now but ensure that they support and not judge

4. Be specific about what you want and why you want it which will inform and shape the questions you ask and where your search for support takes you.

5. Earn respective and trust of those supporting you through your action- take their courses, read their books, watch their videos, listen to them and be open to learning from them.

If you want someone to invest in you, give them a reason to believe in you 

Inspired from Mario Forleo blog and video 13.09.16